Flirting Tips

Written by on February 15, 2011 in Relationships - 5 Comments | Print this page


FlirtingAre you interested in and attracted to someone? Do you want to flirt with someone but you don’t know how to do it without being too obvious? Read these flirting tips and relationship tips to guide you.

1. You have to give clear signals. Both men and women are bad in interpreting signals. You have to know what you want when you flirt and convey what you want to mean. Do not flirt with someone just for fun unless they are flirty themselves. For instance, you flirt because you want to explore opportunities. You may end up having a life time partner.

2. You have to be yourself. Do not pretend or assume any personality because they will find out sooner or later. Be proud of yourself. If you want to improve yourself, you may want to get hold of self-help books or enroll in courses that will enhance your personality.

3. You have to feel good about yourself. Once you feel good, other people will feel good about you as well.

4. Respect yourself. Do not treat yourself as someone who doesn’t deserve the best. Don’t be so desperate that whoever comes along, is your target.

5. You have to concentrate on the conversation and not on getting a date. Women would love to have a meaningful conversation before plunging on the next step – having a date.

6. If you are interested in someone, make yourself interesting. You have to avoid talking about yourself too much. Ask open ended questions. People love to talk about themselves so you better ask safe questions. Avoid taboo topics such as salary or past relationships.

7. Give genuine compliments to your target. Do not sound sarcastic or joke around in giving compliments. For instance, if you notice what your date is wearing is very colorful: do not say “You look like a parrot to me.”

8. You may consider asking what he or she enjoys doing instead of asking “what do you do?” When you ask this question, there’s an implication that you are “checking for wallet-padding.”

9. Have some props. Carry or wear something that will catch their attention. But make sure you don’t overdo it.

10. When you have intentions of flirting, you have to detach for the meantime from your friends. This will make you more approachable. No one wants to be rejected in front of a group of people – especially if those are your friends.

11. If you are going to give out your number, make sure it’s the real one. You may consider carrying a business or personal business card for you to hand out. It only means that it’s either you’ll give out your number or not.

12. You should know how to present yourself. Flirting could be the start of a relationship. Make sure your hair is clean, you smell good and you wear well cleaned and pressed clothes.

Now that you know the flirting tips and relationship tips, get out there and try them. These tips will surely help you achieve your relationship goals. Remember that when you decide to flirt with someone, make sure you are serious with your intentions and not just playing games.

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