How Did You Meet Your Mate? The Runaway Popularity of Online Dating

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couple holding handsResearch that was recently released by the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences indicates that 35 percent of all new relationships can be linked to an online dating or social media site.

Additionally, one-third of the couples who married between 2005 and 2012 met online. In other words, the increasing popularity of online dating is definitely helping Cupid hit his mark, so this is definitely a good option for anyone who is still looking for a date for Valentine’s Day.

Dating Website Success Stories

The Internet is filled with dating websites and success stories, but some of them truly highlight the many factors that make this method more reliable than waiting to bump into the right person. For example, Michael and Andrea met through OKCupid and spent the next 12 hours talking.

Undaunted by the fact that they were separated in real life by more than 1,300 miles, this couple quickly began talking every day. Several months later, they were finally able to meet in person, and this led to Michael popping the question approximately a year after they met.

Gemma and Neil found each other on PlentyOfFish after Gemma discovered that her long-term boyfriend had used the same dating site to cheat on her. Instead of getting despondent, Gemma took this opportunity to look for someone who would be a better fit, and she and Neil instantly connected. The couple is now happily engaged and planning to tie the knot in 2016.

Although everyone’s experience will not turn out like the preceding two examples, there are several popular dating sites such as and eHarmony that help people make connections on a daily basis.

In fact, some of them even provide a money back guarantee if you do not meet someone within a specific period of time. Due to this, it makes sense for anyone who is looking for love to at least dip their toes into the Internet dating pool.

Tips for Getting Engaged

If you meet the perfect partner on a dating site, you should carefully consider how to propose. After all, it is always best to do something unique and romantic that helps capture the spirit of who the two of you are as a couple.

Therefore, doing something simplistic such as putting the engagement ring in a glass of champagne is probably not the best option. Instead, you can plan a romantic picnic in the woods, replace a book lover’s bookmark with a note asking them to marry you or even send your beloved on a scavenger hunt that will end with you down on one knee.

Internet dating sites make it much easier for you to access a wide group of people, and filling out your profile completely can help each site’s algorithm point you in the right direction.

Once you meet the person you want to marry, make sure that you take the time to find a quality diamond ring before you ask for their hand in marriage. Fortunately, you can learn the basics of how to pick a good diamond online, and you can also get viable advice by consulting with a reputable jewelry store.

Although it’s been nearly thirty years since writer Lisa Becker’s husband “popped the question,” she remembers like it was yesterday. She looks forward to the day she can help her son find the perfect ring for his special lady, so she did some research at sites such asĀ and shares her findings with her readers to take some of the mystery out of finding the perfect gem.

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